Falling out with a mate can be upsetting, but doesn"t have to be the kết thúc of your friendship.
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It"s a fact of life that people (of all ages & in all walks of life) fall out! Sometimes you hóa trang, sometimes you don"t. Friends can come & go out of our lives. This is your chance to work out how you will cope with what can be really upsetting situations.
It helps to talk to lớn someone if you"re feeling down. Don"t feel bad about yourself, concentrate on things you enjoy, và don"t bottle things up.
Falling out with a friend
People of all ages fall out for a number of reasons. Most people will Cosplay, but some might not. If you value the friendship then it is worth trying lớn ảo diệu with the person.
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When the argument has settled down, try talking lớn them and figuring out why you are both annoyed with each other.
Compromising with each other is key to lớn making up. You have probably said some horrible things khổng lồ each other & are both at fault, but you must get over this khổng lồ move sầu on
How Can I Fix It?
There"s no magic cure for arguments between friends, but there are a bunch of things you can try:
Try và imagine it from the other side
When we argue, we"re usually blinded by our own view of things. How would you feel if the situation were reversed? Would you see things the same way as you do now?
Find a peacemaker
Ask someone who friend is friends with the both of you or an adult who wasn"t involved khổng lồ help get you talking. Don"t expect them to lớn take sides though - it won"t help and isn"t fair on them.
Listen
Pay careful attention lớn what they say. It"ll help you underst& why they feel the way they vày and make them more likely lớn listen khổng lồ your point of view. By listening you"ll understand why they have sầu a different viewpoint.
Tell them how you feel
This is really important to helping them understand why you feel the way you do but don"t go baông xã over what you think they did wrong - it might re-start the argument.
Tell them how you feel in a calm and non-aggressive way. Even if you are right they won"t listen khổng lồ you if they don"t like the way they are being spoken to lớn.
Have sầu a laugh
Was there a funny side to lớn what happened? Being able to lớn laugh about it together - particularly about yourself và how you reacted - can help heal the hurt.
Accept that you might both have been right
Being able khổng lồ agree khổng lồ disagree is an important part of being friends in the long term. In any case, what"s more important - "winning" an argument or keeping a mate?
Cheông chồng out more tips on how to lớn fix that fall out & six steps to better friendships.
